Now Adam knew Eve his wife, and she conceived and bore Cain, and said, “I have acquired a man from the LORD.” Then she bore again, this time his brother Abel. Now Abel was a keeper of sheep, but Cain was a tiller of the ground. Genesis 4:1-2(NKJV)
This is a story of a family and also a story of two brothers. Of these two stories one thing stands in common. Every family and family relationship is subject to carnal attitudes that must be kept in check. No family is perfect and though some families’ suppress tension, all families suffer strains and setbacks because of attitudes.
Family unity was a concept created by God. Therefore, this first family became a target for the destructive desires of Lucifer. As if it is not hard enough to overcome of personal bad behaviors, we have a devil that urges us away from godliness.
Eve considered the birth of her sons as God’s gifts to her. Though they had to leave the Garden of Eden, they still found forgiveness in God eyes and allowed God actions towards them to be justified in their hearts. Adam and Eve harbored no bitterness towards God.
Children only hear about their parents experience with God; they lack experience of their own. Where some children listen with attentiveness, others do not apply the information they hear. This was the case for Cain.
Cain was the first born son. You can make all the excuses in the world for the oldest son to have feelings brought about by the birth of a younger sibling; however, those excuses are not a good reason for inner family turmoil and the events that took place here.
And in the process of time it came to pass that Cain brought an offering of the fruit of the ground to the LORD. Abel also brought of the firstborn of his flock and of their fat. And the LORD respected Abel and his offering, but He did not respect Cain and his offering. And Cain was very angry, and his countenance fell. Genesis 4:3-5(NKJV)
Now each son had a relationship with the Lord and though no man has seen God at any time, the indelible voice of the Lord echoed in their hearts. Abel knew in his heart that his sacrifice was accepted by God and Cain, as well, knew his sacrifice displeased God.
Each son was taught of the sacrifice that God made to cover the effects of sin. Because innocent blood was shed for their sin, it was to be remembered in their family. The sacrifice speaks to God that we understand our need for forgiveness and that the penalty for sin is death. Yet in God’s eyes a sacrifice is nothing if it did not cost the person who brought it.
Abel had to nurture the lamb, watching it grow every day. Abel had to daily look at the lamb realizing that because of sin, it had to die. There was a personal investment and a personal cost. God intended the sacrifice to be a deterrent from sin and a reminder of the evil we allowed into our lives.
The opposite was true for Cain. All he did was pick fruit from his garden and had no personal investment in what he brought to God. There was no remorse for sin and that showed no respect for God; therefore God was displeased with Cain’s sacrifice.
This made Cain upset and he allowed anger to grow towards God and towards his brother. Anger is produced by sinful attitudes that we allow to stay in our lives. If left alone, we can expect the same from our own lives.
People become impatient with other people. They also become envious wanting what others have. When bitterness is allowed to fester in the heart, actions are sure to follow.
So the LORD said to Cain, “Why are you angry? And why has your countenance fallen? If you do well, will you not be accepted? And if you do not do well, sin lies at the door. And its desire is for you, but you should rule over it.” Genesis 4:6-7(NKJV)
Adam, Eve, Cain, and Able had no experience with how crazy emotions could make them. It is very well possible that envy never happened to them before and Cain had no parental guidance teaching him how to deal with his feelings. Yet a person has no excuse when they do not listen to the voice of God who speaks to our heart.
Now Cain talked with Abel his brother; and it came to pass, when they were in the field, that Cain rose up against Abel his brother and killed him. Then the LORD said to Cain, “Where is Abel your brother?”
He said, “I do not know. Am I my brother’s keeper?” And He said, “What have you done? The voice of your brother’s blood cries out to Me from the ground. Genesis 4:8-10(NKJV)
Mistake number one; God told him to get control of his feelings and Cain’s response was to go and talk it over with his brother. He had good intentions to talk; then what started as talk, ended with the death of his brother. Cain did not honor God with obedience.
Obedience is the core of our relationship with God. Knowing to do good and doing it not, misses the target behavior God has set for His people. If you are disobedient to God, no good will come from it. Cain has not been the only person in history that has killed in the heat of the moment. People have lost relationships, driven people away, and even committed murder because of the lack of obedience and self control.
Then snowballing out of control, when confronted by God, he lied to God. He had allowed sin to dominate his life, destroy his family, and turn his complete heart against God. What was God to do?
So now you are cursed from the earth, which has opened its mouth to receive your brother’s blood from your hand. When you till the ground, it shall no longer yield its strength to you. A fugitive and a vagabond you shall be on the earth.” And Cain said to the LORD, “My punishment is greater than I can bear! Surely You have driven me out this day from the face of the ground; I shall be hidden from Your face; I shall be a fugitive and a vagabond on the earth, and it will happen that anyone who finds me will kill me.” And the LORD said to him, “Therefore, whoever kills Cain, vengeance shall be taken on him sevenfold.” And the LORD set a mark on Cain, lest anyone finding him should kill him. Genesis 4:11-15(NKJV)
The first thing that God does is to make Cain’s life harder. Kindness did not work and if troubles and hardship do not show us our need for God, what can? The very aspect of farming was ruined for him. He was now going to have to travel to find food and when he would find it, the ground there would stop yielding. Cain would be on a constant search for food.
People would regret the day Cain would show up in their area. Their crops would die and many people would want to kill him; therefore, God set a mark on him so people would recognize who he was and spare his life.
Even Cain’s plea to God that the punishment was too great, he was not asking for forgiveness, only selfish release from hardship. Cain was not going to surrender to godliness; he found no value in it.
What does it take to get your attention? God sent His Son to be the perfect sacrifice. We are to make Jesus our focus and forever consider the sacrifice He made. This is what changes lives and makes us good people. When in remorse for our sins, we show respect towards God.
Yet does God have respect for you? Does He approve of the way you live your life and does your life produce good results. It could be that your situation is driving you to repentance; but if the hardness of your heart is holding you back, the very events surrounding your life might be Him trying to get your attention.
From a garden of plenty to a wilderness of need; that was the direction sin took the first family. Is that the direction it takes you?