What do you say to your children. Genesis 49:1-26.
And Jacob called his sons and said, “Gather together, that I may tell you what shall befall you in the last days: “Gather together and hear, you sons of Jacob, And listen to Israel your father. Genesis 49:1-2(NKJV)
Jacob was the father of twelve boys and through these sons God promised to build a people that would profoundly impact the world. God wanted to make a people for Himself and that desire, with promise, was first announce to Abraham and passed to his son Isaac.
Having been passed such a large, incredible, challenge could not have been taken serious by Isaac; however, God spoke His desire personally to Him. This passing on of the will of God occurred again with Isaac’s son, Jacob and now it was being passed to the twelve sons of Jacob.
God was building a people for Himself and the nation of Israel exists today as proof that what God desires to happen, will happen. With the hand of God on their lives these men produced a mighty nation that would remain separate from the rest of the world.
In Egypt they would be separate from the Egyptians and that separateness would have to continue to be guarded throughout their existence. This people, this history, this desire of God, were to be taken serious; however, their sin would hold them back or pigeon hole their participation. This was what Jacob would tell his boys.
If you are serious with a task, you will be treated serious; however your actions affect who you are and these men had allowed themselves to commit sins that shaped their future.
Jacob also had prophetic knowledge about these boys and though they were different; he wanted them to remain as one people. He wanted them to continue with the God of their fathers, but also he wanted them to be unique.
“Reuben, you are my firstborn, My might and the beginning of my strength, The excellency of dignity and the excellency of power. Unstable as water, you shall not excel, Because you went up to your father’s bed; Then you defiled it- He went up to my couch. Genesis 49:3-4(NKJV)
Being the first born, the family birthright should have fallen on his head. This was to be his moment before his brothers; however, his sin had left a lasting shadow on the family’s reputation.
Jacob viewed Ruben as unstable as water and those unstable are so because they do not take the actions to correct their faults. Therefore, Ruben would lose his opportunity for the blessing of the firstborn.
“Simeon and Levi are brothers; Instruments of cruelty are in their dwelling place. Let not my soul enter their council; Let not my honor be united to their assembly; For in their anger they slew a man, And in their self-will they hamstrung an ox. Cursed be their anger, for it is fierce; And their wrath, for it is cruel! I will divide them in Jacob And scatter them in Israel. Genesis 49:5-7(NKJV)
These were the two who avenged the defilement of the sister. They became so revengeful they killed the Shechemite men, making it a horrible atrocity. For this Jacob saw that they needed to be divided so they may never collaborate on wickedness again.
Jacob curses their anger together; but he does not curse them as individuals. As individuals, Jacob wanted them to go on to improve the way they lived life and led their off spring. This was their parting call to righteousness from their father.
“Judah, you are he whom your brothers shall praise; Your hand shall be on the neck of your enemies; Your father’s children shall bow down before you. Judah is a lion’s whelp; From the prey, my son, you have gone up. He bows down, he lies down as a lion; And as a lion, who shall rouse him? The scepter shall not depart from Judah, Nor a lawgiver from between his feet, Until Shiloh comes; And to Him shall be the obedience of the people. Binding his donkey to the vine, And his donkey’s colt to the choice vine, He washed his garments in wine, And his clothes in the blood of grapes. His eyes are darker than wine, And his teeth whiter than milk. Genesis 49:8-12(NKJV)
Judah, whose name means “praise,” was Jacobs’s most intriguing son. Jacob knew that this young man was going to produce an off spring that would claim their territory, without vexing those around them. They would be of strong royalty and of dignity. Which shows the dramatic insight Jacob was given; for a descendant of Judah would be Jesus Christ, the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords.
“Zebulun shall dwell by the haven of the sea; He shall become a haven for ships, And his border shall adjoin Sidon. Genesis 49:13(NKJV)
Jacob saw the desire within Zebulun and when praying for his son, a prophesy of the Lord showed him the future. To Zebulun it must have been a relief and a lifting of a burden as he listen to his father speak of such a great future. Zebulun would be a shelter in the storm, a place of refuge, and his commerce would be great.
“Issachar is a strong donkey, Lying down between two burdens; He saw that rest was good, And that the land was pleasant; He bowed his shoulder to bear a burden, And became a band of slaves. Genesis 49:14-15(NKJV)
Jacob knew his sons well and this one was destined to be in debt to others. His birth came after his mother purchased mandrakes in order to enhance fertility. This was a significant event and even his mother helped to predestine the child by giving a name that meant “man of hire.”
Often, how we raise a child is how they will continue in life and for Jacob, the facts surrounding their upbringing coupled with the prophesy of God, gave him the words of destiny. Issachar would continue to raise his family to be workers in the land.
“Dan shall judge his people As one of the tribes of Israel. Dan shall be a serpent by the way, A viper by the path, That bites the horse’s heels So that its rider shall fall backward. I have waited for your salvation, O LORD! Genesis 49:16-18(NKJV)
I find that one of the heaviest prophesies of this passage is about Dan. It seems to have no great impact on the nation of Israel. Jacob knew that Dan would become a leader of his own family; however, trouble would beset Dan and God would deliver him with salvation from his troublers.
“Gad, a troop shall tramp upon him, But he shall triumph at last.”Bread from Asher shall be rich, And he shall yield royal dainties. Genesis 49:19-20(NKJV)
Each of our children will have different courses in life and the contrast of Gad and Asher were completely different; yet mentioned together, it may be that Jacob knew that the actions of one would provide safety for the other.
Jacob reveals to Gad that he should prepare his people to fight; and the promise in this prophesy was Gad would win the battle in the end.
For Asher, his future would pivot on his culinary skills. He would provide pastries and bread for royalty. His family would join him and is efforts would benefit others. Perhaps even Gad who would fight and be victorious was fed by Asher.
“Naphtali is a deer let loose; He uses beautiful words. Genesis 49:21(NKJV)
Jacobs’s son, Naphtali, was beautiful in his sight. He stood tall, with his head up. He could negotiate and speak words that could defuse situations. This talent would go forward to help Israel to be a proud people. With these words of encouragement to continue, Naphtali would raise children to be like minded.
“Joseph is a fruitful bough, A fruitful bough by a well; His branches run over the wall. The archers have bitterly grieved him, Shot at him and hated him. But his bow remained in strength, And the arms of his hands were made strong By the hands of the Mighty God of Jacob (From there is the Shepherd, the Stone of Israel), By the God of your father who will help you, And by the Almighty who will bless you. With blessings of heaven above, Blessings of the deep that lies beneath, Blessings of the breasts and of the womb. The blessings of your father Have excelled the blessings of my ancestors, Up to the utmost bound of the everlasting hills. They shall be on the head of Joseph, And on the crown of the head of him who was separate from his brothers. Genesis 49:22-26(NKJV)
Lastly Jacob addresses his two most beloved sons. They were Jacob’s pride and joy. In these sons Jacob had much hope and the revelation from God was intense concerning them.
Joseph was the only son of the twelve who God personally directed. Much like Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, Joseph would continue in God’s grace because Joseph honored God. If God be for us, who can be against us?
Joseph had branched out without the help of his family. He made his way from the bottom to the top. He took adversity and turned it to prosperity. In Joseph the promise that the whole world would be blessed had made a way for the development of the nation of Israel and the way for the coming Messiah. Joseph was already blessed by God and Jacob was proud to be a part of his life.
“Benjamin is a ravenous wolf; In the morning he shall devour the prey, And at night he shall divide the spoil.” All these are the twelve tribes of Israel, and this is what their father spoke to them. And he blessed them; he blessed each one according to his own blessing. Genesis 49:27-28(NKJV)
Though Jacob loved Benjamin too, Jacob could not hold back from speaking the prophesy given to him. Benjamin, the youngest of all the boys and the direct brother of Joseph was going to have to fend for himself.
Benjamin would not be happy with following after Joseph and he would have to forge a life of his own. He would have to be strong and crafty; his survival would depend on his ability to out think, out run, and to be stronger than those around him. Benjamin would have to take advantage of situations and increase from that.
The words of their father were direct and held no flowery statements to sooth the hearer. He spoke them with attitude knowing the grief and the joy they had brought to him. Most of all they were spoken as God revealed prophesies of their future.
On his death bed Jacob peered out of his body like a shell for his life was slipping away quickly. Jacob would go to his grave in faith that God will continue his work and in hopes that these boys might listen to the words spoken to the whole. He hopped they would seek for them to be united in desire and for some, calm their ways to be like the admirable.
As parents, it would be a shame to wait until your dying days to speak words of direction to your children. The scriptures have examples of people who never spoke to their children. They never asked them “What are you doing?” and they never reproved them.
Children began to develop and though we cannot change who they are, we can guild them into who they will be. We can be there before they make decisions to act. We can warn them about the pitfalls of life and we can influence them to know that God is real and wants to have a relationship with them.
As parents we hold a crucial role in our families and here we have been given insight to the family of Jacob; a family that would grow to become the nation of Israel.